Asteya: Living Without Stealing

This is the third article in my series on the yamas, the ethical foundations of yoga.

In this piece, we explore Asteya, or non-stealing, and the many ways it guides us toward balance, integrity, and trust.

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Asteya, the third yama, is often translated simply as “non-stealing.”

At first glance, its meaning seems straightforward: do not take what does not belong to you.

But in the heart of yoga and Ayurveda, Asteya expands far beyond material theft. It is about honoring the balance of giving and receiving, respecting our own needs and boundaries, and living in trust that what we have, in this moment, is enough.

The Many Layers of Asteya

1. Material Non-Stealing

The most obvious form of Asteya is refraining from taking possessions or resources that belong to others. This layer sets the foundation for honesty and respect in society.

2. Respecting Time

When we show up late, unprepared, or distracted, we take from another’s precious time. Practicing Asteya means honoring the flow of time, (ours and others’) as sacred.

3. Honoring Energy

We also steal when we drain others with our negativity, gossip, or unconscious demands. Living Asteya means cultivating awareness of how we affect the energy of those around us.

4. Intellectual Respect

Asteya is integrity in thought and expression. It means crediting the ideas, words, and creations of others, and not claiming them as our own.

5. Listening Fully

Interrupting, dominating, or dismissing another’s voice steals their opportunity to express truth. Asteya teaches us to listen deeply and generously.

6. Environmental Awareness

When we consume excessively or waste resources, we take more from the earth than we need. Asteya calls us to live simply, gratefully, and in balance with nature.

7. Non-Stealing from the Future

Overconsumption, pollution, and disregard for sustainability rob future generations of clean air, water, and abundance. Asteya is a commitment to stewardship.

8. Respecting Opportunities

Asteya also asks us to honor others’ chances to grow, learn, and lead, without pushing ourselves ahead unfairly or out of ego.

9. Authenticity in Relationships

Deception, manipulation, or hiding parts of ourselves steals the possibility of true intimacy. Asteya means showing up authentically, with honesty and openness.

10. Self-Trust

We can steal from ourselves by ignoring rest, neglecting boundaries, or betraying our own inner truth. Asteya invites us to honor the promises we make to our own wellbeing.

11. Presence and Attention

When we allow distraction, overthinking, or numbing behaviors to dominate, we rob ourselves of the richness of the present moment. Presence is a form of non-stealing.

12. Contentment

Comparison and envy steal joy from the heart. Asteya asks us to rest in santosha (contentment), trusting that we have enough, and that we are enough.

13. Spiritual Integrity

Asteya reminds us not to steal spiritual wisdom or experiences through appropriation or force. Authentic growth comes through patience, humility, and practice.

14. Generosity of Spirit

Asteya blossoms in generosity. When we give freely, whether through kindness, attention, or care, the impulse to steal dissolves. Gratitude replaces grasping.

Asteya Through Ayurveda

Ayurveda teaches that the root of stealing is avidya; forgetfulness of our true nature. When imbalance clouds our mind or when fear drives our choices, we grasp for what is not ours, hoping to feel full.

• When Vata is imbalanced, we may steal attention or security, grasping for stability outside ourselves.

• When Pitta is imbalanced, we may steal recognition or dominance, driven by ambition or comparison.

• When Kapha is imbalanced, we may steal energy or time, clinging to comfort or stagnation.

Balanced living—through aligned food, rest, movement, and mindfulness—dissolves these tendencies. When the body and mind are nourished, contentment naturally arises, and the heart no longer feels the need to take.

Living in Trust

Asteya is ultimately about trust: trust in ourselves, trust in others, and trust in the abundance of life.

It reminds us that we do not need to take from others to be whole.

Everything we truly need is already within us.

Let's practice Asteya together. Let's help each other stop stealing from the world, from our brethren, and from ourselves. Let's begin to live in harmony, gratitude, and generosity. And be well beings.

Love, Meg

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